Q:When are you can you lie and can a jew have a surprise party
A:Aurach Hashulchan you can say kalah is good looking to the chasan but your lieing over here there a heter you dont want to hurt feelings so you say something that could be understood in 2 different ways Rabanu Yonah says you can lie for shalom bais
Rav Shlomo Zalman Aurbach someone comes to the door and asks for someone you can lie and say he isnt here for shalom someone asks you for someone b/c he wants to kill him you can lie that is emes poskim say you can lie to do a chesed a surprise party has a lot of lies mabye we allow it b/c of shalom Rav Fisher says no its asur
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