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ב"ה

Seymour J. Abrams

Cheder Lubavitch Hebrew Day School

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Message from the Dean

Let's talk about something we've all felt: anger. Whether it's getting cut off in traffic or dealing with someone who really hurt us, anger can come fast and hit hard. It's natural to feel upset when someone wrongs us. But our tradition offers us a way to approach these moments that can bring us closer to each other and to G-d.

The Talmud likens getting angry to worshipping idols. At first, that sounds extreme—after all, anger is just an emotion. But when we look at the story of Joseph and his brothers in this week's Torah portion, we start to understand.

Joseph had every reason to be angry. His brothers sold him into slavery and tore him away from his family for over 20 years. Yet, when they finally reunited, Joseph didn't lash out. Instead, he said, "You didn't send me here; G-d did." Joseph saw the bigger picture—everything that happened was part of G-d's plan, even if it came about through someone else's bad choices.

When we're angry, it's easy to focus on what someone else did to us. But Joseph's story reminds us to step back and see G-d's hand in our lives. That doesn't mean bad behavior is okay, but it helps us let go of anger and look for ways to move forward.

As a community, this perspective is powerful. When we let go of grudges and see each other through the lens of compassion, we build unity. And that unity is what makes us strong and prepares us for the coming of Moshiach and the Final Redemption.

Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Yitzchok Wolf


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Parshah in a Nutshell


Parshat Vayigash

The name of the Parshah, "Vayigash," means "And he approached" and it is found in Genesis 44:18.

Judah approaches Joseph to plead for the release of Benjamin, offering himself as a slave to the Egyptian ruler in Benjamin's stead. Upon witnessing his brothers' loyalty to one another, Joseph reveals his identity to them. "I am Joseph," he declares. "Is my father still alive?"

The brothers are overcome by shame and remorse, but Joseph comforts them. "It was not you who sent me here," he says to them, "but Gd. It has all been ordained from Above to save us, and the entire region, from famine."

The brothers rush back to Canaan with the news. Jacob comes to Egypt with his sons and their families— seventy souls in all—and is reunited with his beloved son after 22 years. On his way to Egypt he receives the divine promise: "Fear not to go down to Egypt; for I will there make of you a great nation. I will go down with you into Egypt, and I will also surely bring you up again."

Joseph gathers the wealth of Egypt by selling food and seed during the famine. Pharaoh gives Jacob's family the fertile county of Goshen to settle, and the children of Israel prosper in their Egyptian exile.

Learn: Vayigash in Depth
Browse: Vayigash Parshah Columnists
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Read: Haftarah in a Nutshell
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Fw: [-aneinu] A Message from the Kalever Rebbe




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A Message from the Kalever Rebbe

Chanukah 5785

The Rebbe at his Menorah, Zos Chanukah 5784

The Pursuit of Knowledge

A man once told the Kotzker Rebbe, "I have learned the entire Talmud."

"And what has the Talmud learned you?" responded the Rebbe.

The Kotzker Rebbe's words serve as a reminder and a guiding light for every yid. Every aspect of Torah study must be applied to a Jew's daily life changing his behaviors.

The secular world views knowledge differently. People may study to earn a degree or achieve higher grades in school. However, very few people in the world sincerely learn with the intent to improve themselves.

I am Not the Philosopher

There is a story about the Greek philosopher Aristotle. Once, his students were visiting him and Aristotle was so overcome by his appetite that he grabbed a live rabbit and bit into it, devouring the animal while it was still struggling in his hands.

Shocked, his students asked, "You are Aristotle the great philosopher! Aren't you the person who teaches us and lectures about ethics and how a decent and refined person must avoid cruelty to animals? How can you eat a living creature so cruelly?"

Aristotle replied, "If I teach geometry and explain what a triangle is, does that mean I must become a triangle? I am simply teaching and defining a triangle for the students. Similarly, when I explain ethics, I am just teaching what is ethics".

And he added, "when I am teaching, I am Aristotle the philosopher. But, when I eat, I am not Aristotle the philosopher. I am just a simple man living according to my own desires."

An Unenlightened World

Roughly two hundred years ago, the world began a period of enlightenment. There was tremendous progress in science, education, and equal rights. At the time, people believed that these accomplishments would form a new world order of peace, freedom for all, and violence and murders would cease.

However, the opposite was true.

The so-called enlightened 20th century witnessed more violence and murder than all of the previous centuries combined. And, Germany, celebrated as the most "advanced" and "civilized" cultures, behaved like savage beasts.

The tyrant Hitler, may his name be erased, preached about the importance of good character traits and their positive benefits for humanity. Stalin, may his name also be erased, claimed that the spread of communism would improve the entire world. Yet, when it came to achieving their goals, whether through war or other means, they unleashed an unheard-of destruction; murdering millions of people with such cruelty never experienced in the world.

Even in our times, we often see that certain academic institutions and "modern" and "progressive" organizations, which claim to uphold values of kindness and compassion, turn a blind eye to cruel acts committed by various perpetrators. Sometimes, they even protect or assist these wrongdoers rather than condemning them.

We Accepted the Torah and Not Wisdom

The Torah describes the Jewish people saying, (Devarim 32:6) as "you disgraceful and unwise nation." Onkelos translates this as "a nation that accepted the Torah but did not become wise."

The Sar Shalom of Belz explained, that all of the secular subjects in the world are called "Chachmah", wisdom. Their sole purpose is to understand and grasp knowledge and nothing more. However, the Torah is designed to teach the Jewish people how to live their lives. It teaches us how to experience every aspect of our lives: how to walk, how to sit, and to rise in the morning etc. The very name "Torah" means "instruction". Its main purpose is to teach every person how to live their lives. Therefore, Onkelos explains that we accepted the Torah, but not to become wise. We accepted it as a guide for living, and not as a mere intellectual pursuit.

Wisdom Amongst the Nations

Chazal taught (Eichah Rabbah 2:17): "If they tell you that there is wisdom among the non-Jewish nations, believe it. However, if they tell you that they have Torah, you cannot believe that".

There is a difference between wisdom and Torah. The idea of "wisdom" refers to learning a subject that does not require you to change your behavior. The non-Jewish nations have that form of wisdom. However, Torah study must impact a person's behaviors. The Torah's instructions must permeate all aspects of one's life. And, that is not found among the non-Jewish nations.

This same concept can be seen in the life of Yoseif HaTzadik.

He merited studying Torah for its own sake from his father, as it says (Breishis 37:3), "And Yisroel loved Yoseif more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age." Rashi explains that Yaakov transmitted all the Torah he had learned from Shem and Eiver to Yoseif.

Yoseif continued studying while he was in Egypt. This Torah study, which he used as a guide for his behavior, gave him the strength to overcome the temptations of Potiphar's wife.

Thus, Pharaoh described Yoseif saying, "Can we find anyone like this man, one in whom is the spirit of God?" This "spirit of God" refers to the spirit of the words of Torah he learned. This enabled Yoseif to withstand the temptations of the Egyptian; a culture defined by promiscuity and depraved morals. In contrast, the wisdom of the Egyptian sages did not help them overcome their own primal desires.

Chanukah

During the times of Chanukah, the Greeks did not oppose the pursuit of Torah study. In fact, they valued wisdom, and they even asked the Jewish sages to translate the Torah into Greek. They also wanted to intellectually pursue Torah study. However, they were opposed to the very concept that differentiates Torah study from any other intellectual pursuit. They wanted to prevent the Jews from connecting their behaviors to their Torah. They wanted the Jews to live their lives chasing their primal desires and study Torah as an unrelated pursuit.

Therefore, in the "Al HaNissim" prayer, we thank Hashem for defeating the Greeks, who sought "to make them forget Your Torah." The Greeks wanted us to study Torah like any other academic subject. They wanted us to forget the "Torah", the idea that it is a "guidebook" which Hashem gave us to teach each of us how to fulfill our purpose in this world.

This is the lesson of Chanukah that we must internalize. When governments in certain countries interfere with the curriculum of our educational institutions, our yeshivas, they are trying to equate Torah study with secular studies. When our entire educational system is being challenged, we must remember to follow in the footsteps of the Chasmanoim. We need to encourage yidden to study the Torah in a way that the Torah guides us throughout our lives.

Furthermore, whether studying halachamusar, or any other aspect of Torah, one must protect himself from the Yetzer Harah who wants you to forget your obligation to apply what you have learned. Instead, one should remember that "study is not the main thing, but action." It is fitting to follow the Ramban's advice to his son: "When you rise from the book, search for any way you can put what you have learned into practice."

In this way, we will merit a life illuminated by the light of Torah.

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